Summary..

On the Interpersonal Communication, I can learn so many things about the communication. Besides that, I also can get some skill to communicate in advance. This can be learning from the chapter 9, messages and conversation. On this chapter we can learn the conversation process. In the conversation process, it starts from opening and ending with closing. In addition, on the chapter 5, its help me how to be a good listening. This chapter gives us the stages of listening. I as the student must know about all this. This because every day I will listen my lecturer teaching in the class. However, the new things that I have learned are verbal and nonverbal messages. This can be learning from chapter 6 until chapter 8. The most interesting to me is on nonverbal communication channels. This is because I can learn body communication, facial communication and other else. On the chapter 13, I learned about the conflict. This chapter I know about principles of interpersonal conflict, conflict management stages and its conflict management strategies, this chapter also made me easily to handle the conflict among my relationship. Overall the Interpersonal Communication chapter, made me reminds again what I have done and does the correction toward it. So, next time I would not do the mistakes again.

Conflict between my sister and my brother

Every one of us have their own conflict whether it positive conflict or negative conflict. Actually I do not like conflict because it made our relationship become hostilities. I have some story that I want to share. I have a sister and older brother in my family. Both of them very closely and sometime I very jealous with them. Why I say like that? This is because my sister very caring to my brother than me. During my brother SPM, my sisters always teach him when after the school. After my brother done with him SPM, he get the result. So, my sister helps him to find the good location campus for continued he study. After find the good location, my brother got a letter that offered him to take plantation management at UiTM Campus. That course is very interesting to my family, so we ask him to accept that offer. We do not know what is in his mind on that time whether he wants to continue or not he study. He just follows all my parents say to him. He goes to UiTM and just takes one week only to survive at that campus. One day, he call my mother that he already arrive at Miri and saying that he do not want to study, he just want to find some job. When my sister heard that news she become very angry to my brother. Then, from that the conflict between them begins until now can not be solving they conflict. Now both of they like I win, you lose in my family. I as a younger sister very upset with them behavior.

RelAtiOnshIps and tEchnOlOgy..

Relationship and technology make me to remember my friend that study at UPNM Kuala Lumpur right now. This relationship exist when he find my phone number in my classmate hand phone.

He and my classmate is very close friend because they live at the same areas that are at Tawau, Sabah. Before I know him, I and my classmate had made some scandal in the class on that time. But my others classmate does not know about we relationship. This is because the way we communicate is just on the hand phone. He always calls and gives me some short message sent.

During the class, both of us do not talk to each other because we want to hide this relationship. This relationship not become to longer because we have the different characteristics. After Hari Raya, I get some messages from the unknown number phone. I become angry when a lot of messages that I do not know sending by whom.

One day, he tells me the truth that he is my classmate friend. I do not know why starting that day I really closely to him until now. But one thing, I cannot see he face because he do not want to sent he picture to me. When we chatting in the hand phone, I do not know why I have a lot of ideas to sharing at him. He and I have a lot of similarity of characteristics. He really nice person, this can be show the way he communicate and give some ideas to me.

Until now, I do not know whether my classmate know about his friend have relationship with me or not. But I do not care about that all, I hope one day I can meet him face to face as a friend. Now, I have found that my classmate has made some scandal in that class also. Why he always find some girl in that class to be the girlfriend. Very funny when know that he very hard to find some girl at the different course.

ConvErsAtiOn...

I have some friend that never talks during our secondary school. Both of us very shy when want to communicate. When see he face, I just smiling at him but when I want to open my mouth to talks with him my tongue suddenly stuck.

I do not know why I can be like that when face to face with he. He actually my classmate during forms four and forms five. Ever we in the same class, he never talks to me but with others classmates he treat very well with them. Sometimes, I want to ask him why he does not want to talk with me. Am I do something wrong at him.

After the ends of forms four, I knew that he has couple in that class. It very surprising when knows them relationship in that class. After I knew that news I does not care anymore about he want to talks to me or not. This is because he already have girlfriend. So, I do not want to spoil they relationship.

However, now they already break up because does not have similarity in their relationship. I thought that I will never see him anymore, but we study at the same university. The strangely is at this university he bravely want to talks to me. This begin when he get my phone number from my friend. One night, he invited me to dinner with him. So, with the open heart I accept him invited.

That’s night very special to me because we finally can do the good conversation and my tongue do not stuck anymore. After that night, we automatically are good friend. We always chatting in the phone and changing our ideas. This relationship much unexpected because I never think this might be happening between of us.